Shorter hair the big Chop!

Bold & Beautiful!

The Big Chop!! Going for Shorter hair!

Victoria Beckham Sexy A-Line BOB

Have you ever considered doing the big CHOP?  Most of us have had a major Chop at some point of our lives... we were either in search of a change, in need of a new look/fresh start, or of fed up with our dead damaged hair!!  Many of us get the boldness to cut it all off when we reach some sort of milestone in our lives and it's a big deal to finally go through with it too!!  This bold move states I'm Confident, Fed-up or CRAZY lol!!!.  I have done a big chop 3 times in my life, the 1st time was when I was 19 I had a "cute A Line BOB with the back shaved off.  Back then it was more about "independence" I was at the age where I could make that decision on my own..no permission needed, it was great because it taught me not to be afraid I was testing my wings.  The second big chop was major I declared my power and strength by moving to NYC my lifelong dream, after a year of being in the big city I was finally ready.  I did the big chop a Boy Cut (Pixie)  It was amazing so bold at the time...I colored it too, I thought I was the BOMB.COM.. I felt so free and alive it was so empowering. 

 

This is when my Hair Broke off

My third chop was because of damaged hair (I had no choice)!!  After having both of my kids my hair was really long for years.  I wore it straight even though my hair was natural (curly) I never wore it that way I (pressed) my hair straight every week sometimes more than once (not good)!  One day my youngest was combing my hair and she decided she was going to "curl it" so she wrapped the comb in my hair to "curl it" and I could not get it unwrapped!  It was wrapped so tight that I had no choice but to cut it out.  My hair went into "SHOCK" I think and It slowly started to break off and shed...!  So off it went my hair WAS GONE.. I had to cut it to even out the shorter side!  It was horrible, I ended up getting a "mommy BOB" not the cute sassy BOB from age 19 or like Victoria Beckham it was definitely a Mom BOB and we all know the difference lol !!!!  Finally my hair did grow back and I embrace me naturally or  I'll wear 2 french braids.  Now I only straighten my hair on special occasions or for a change.  So the next big chop is going to be under my terms If God is willing It will be Short, Sassy, and FIERCE.. I'm thinking about doing it when I turn the big 50, but since that's years away who knows It could be sooner!! :)


FIERCE!